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"It was never just an affair" needs to be in quotations, because it was something my ex-husband said to me early on in the break-up. I guess he thought it might make me feel better to know it wasn't just a fling per say, it was real love? It didn't make me feel better. Him ending the affair and being willing to work on the marriage would have made me feel better.

Monday, 25 August 2014

A list of articles I have found useful

It has been quite awhile since I have published a list of articles I found helpful in some way. I have tried to organize them into their various topical themes. Happy cutting and pasting; I hope you find something useful within.  


ARTICLES ABOUT INFIDELITY


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/06/30/cheating-recovery_n_5545590.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/thinking-about-cheating-read-this-first-jgc/

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/bmartin-1-reason-why-i-dont-cheat/

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/8-reasons-why-a-real-man-would-never-cheat-on-someone-he-truly-loves-grgs/

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/ojh-9-reasons-why-cheating-feels-right-and-one-that-feels-better-than-right/

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/darwin-eternity/201407/the-surprising-source-our-sexual-morals

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/confessions-cheating-husbands-hesaid/#sthash.8M1EM5jE.gbpl

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/5-steps-to-take-in-order-to-protect-your-relationship-from-infidelity-grgs/

http://goodmenproject.com/ethics-values/what-to-do-when-your-partner-cheats-fiff/


ARTICLES ABOUT NON-MONOGAMY


http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/strictly-casual/201406/what-do-people-really-think-alternative-relationships

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/love-without-limits/201304/the-truth-about-polyamory

http://goodmenproject.com/ethics-values/monogamy-isnt-for-everyone-polyamory-isnt-going-to-ruin-the-world/
http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/should-i-let-my-wife-hook-up-with-another-guy/

http://www.collective-evolution.com/2014/08/23/are-we-really-meant-to-be-monogamous-the-reason-why-we-cheat-on-the-people-we-love/

http://goodmenproject.com/ethics-values/9-steps-negotiating-ethical-non-monogamy-gmp/

ARTICLES ABOUT DATING


http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/201012/the-thoroughly-modern-guide-breakups

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/dating-decisions/201210/you-are-who-you-date
http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/171747/7_ways_to_make_your

ARTICLES ABOUT DIVORCE

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-love-doctor/201009/how-exorcise-your-ex

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/because-im-the-mom/201408/how-good-wives-survive-bad-marriages

http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/contempt-the-best-predictor-of-divorce-fiff/


OTHER INTERESTING ARTICLES

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ulterior-motives/201406/the-danger-labeling-others-or-yourself

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-squeaky-wheel/201307/10-surprising-facts-about-rejection


http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/ulterior-motives/201408/are-we-truly-able-forgive-and-forget

1 comment:

Rebecca Wissink said...

Another article on non-monogamy:

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201408/inside-look-open-marriages